Yang engkau alami selama ini ?
Hal yang sangat menyedihkan adalah
saat kau Jujur pada temanmu,
Dia berdusta padamu...
Saat dia telah berjanji padamu,
Dia mengingkarinya. ...
Saat kau memberikan perhatian,
Dia tidak menghargainya. ..
Hal yang sangat menyakitkan adalah
saat kau mengirimkan e-mail pada temanmu,
Dia menghapus tanpa membacanya.. .
Saat kau membutuhkan jawaban dari e-mailmu,
Dia tidak menjawab Dan mengacuhkannya. ..
Saat bertemu dengannya Dan ingin menyapa,
Dia pura2 tidak melihatmu...
Saat kau mencintainya dengan tulus tapi
Dia tidak mencintamu.. .
Saat dia yang kau sayangi tiba2 memutuskan
Hubungannya denganmu...
Hal yang sangat mengecewakan adalah
Kau dibutuhkan hanya pada saat dia dalam kesulitan...
Saat kau bersikap ramah,
Dia terkadang bersikap sinis padamu...
Saat kau butuh dia untuk berbagi cerita,
Dia berusaha untuk menghindarimu. ..
Jangan pernah menyesali atas apa yang terjadi padamu...
Sebenarnya hal-hal yang kau alami sedang mengajarimu. ..
Saat temanmu berdusta padamu
Atau tidak menepati janjinya padamu
Atau dia tidak menghargai perhatian yang kau berikan....
Sebenarnya dia telah mengajarimu
Agar kau tidak berprilaku seperti dia...
Saat temanmu menghapus e-mail yang kau kirim
Sebelum membacanya
Atau saat bertemu dengannya Dan ingin menyapa,
Dia pura2 tidak melihatmu...
Sebenarnya dia telah mengajarkanmu
Agar tidak berprasangka buruk &
Selalu berpikiran positif
Bahwa mungkin saja dia pernah
Membaca E-mail yang kau kirim...
Atau mungkin saja dia tidak melihatmu...
Dan saat dia tidak menjawab e-mailmu...
Sebenarnya dia telah mengajarkanmu
Untuk menjawab e-mail temanmu
Yang membutuhkan jawaban
Walaupun kau sedang sibuk
Dan jika kau tidak bisa menjawabnya
Katakan kalau kau belum bisa menjawabnya
Jangan biarkan e-mailnya tanpa jawaban
Karena mungkin dia sedang menunggu jawabanmu...
Saat kau mencintainya dengan tulus
Tapi dia tidak mencintaimu
Atau dia yang kau sayangi
Tiba2 memutuskan hubungannya denganmu
Sebenarnya dia sedang mengajarimu
Untuk menerima rencanaNya.. .
Saat kau bersikap ramah
Tapi dia terkadang bersikap sinis padamu...
Sebenarnya dia sedang mengajarimu
Untuk selalu bersikap ramah pada siapapun...
Saat kau butuh dia untuk berbagi cerita,
Dia berusaha untuk menghindarimu. ..
Sebenarnya dia sedang mengajarimu
Untuk menjadi seorang teman
Yang bisa diajak berbagi cerita,
Mau mendengarkan keluhan
Temanmu Dan membantunya. ..
Bila kau dibutuhkan hanya pada saat
Dia sedang dalam kesulitan...
Sebenarnya juga telah mengajarimu
Untuk menjadi orang yang arif & santun,
Kau telah membantunya saat dia dalam kesulitan...
Begitu banyak hal yang tidak menyenangkan
Yang sering kau alami
Atau bertemu dengan orang2 yang menjengkelkan,
Egois Dan sikap yang tidak mengenakkan. ..
Dan betapa tidak menyenangkan
menjadi orang yang dikecewakan, disakiti,
Tidak dipedulikan / dicuekin, tidak dihargai,
Atau bahkan mungkin dicaci Dan dihina...
Sebenarnya orang2 tsb sedang mengajarimu
Untuk melatih membersihkan hati & jiwa,
Melatih untuk menjadi orang yang sabar
Dan mengajarimu untuk tidak berprilaku seperti itu...
Mungkin Tuhan menginginkan kau bertemu orang
Dengan berbagai macam karakter yang tidak menyenangkan
Sebelum kau bertemu dengan orang yang menyenangkan
Dalam kehidupanmu
Dan kau harus mengerti
Bagaimana berterimakasih atas
Karunia itu yang telah mengajarkan sesuatu yang
Paling berharga dalam hidupmu...
Minggu, 30 November 2008
Kamis, 06 November 2008
"Four People You Will Meet In Live"
Four people you will meet in life.
Life is the process of finding love;
every person will need to find four people in their life.
First person is you,
second person is the one you love most,
third person is the one who love you most,
and the fourth is the one you spend the rest of your life with.
In life, firstly you will meet with the one you love most,
and learn how love feels.
Because you know how love feels,
so you can find the person who loves you most.
When you have experienced the feeling
of loving others and being loved,
you will then know what it is you need most.
Then you will find the person who is most suitable for you,
to be able to spend the rest of your life with.
Sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person.
The one you love most doesn´t love you.
The one, who love you most, is never the one you love most.
And the one you spend your life with,
is never the one you love most or
the one who love you most.
He is just the person who happens
to be at the right place at the right time.
Which person are you in other people´s life?
No person will purposely have a change of heart.
At the point in time when he loves you,
he really loves you.
But when he doesn´t love you anymore,
he really doesn´t love you anymore.
When he loves you,
he can´t pretend that he doesn´t.
Same goes, when he loves you no more,
there´s no way he can pretend he loves you.
When a person doesn´t love you and wants to leave you.
You must ask yourself
if you still love him,
if you also don´t love him anymore,
do not keep him just to save your pride.
If you still love him,
you should wish him happiness,
and hope that he will be with the one he loves most,
not stop him from it.
If you stop him from finding true happiness
with the one he loves,
it shows you already don´t love him,
and if you don´t love him,
what rights do you have to blame him
for a change of heart?
Love is not possessive,
if you like the moon,
you can´t just take it down
and put it in your basin,
but the moonlight still shines upon you.
In other words, when you love a person,
you can use another method of
possessing the person.
Let him become a permanent memory in you life.
If you really love a person,
you must love him for what he is.
Love him for his good points,
and the bad,
you can´t wish for him to become like
what you like him to be just
because you love him.
If he can´t change to become what you like him to be,
you don´t love him anymore.
When you really love a person,
you cannot find a reason why you love him,
you only know that no matter when and where,
good mood or bad mood,
you will wish to have this person be with you.
Real love is when two people
can go through the toughest problems
without asking for promises or
listing criterias.
In a relationship,
you have to put in effort and
give in at times,
not always be on the receiving end.
Being away from each other is a type of test,
If the relationship isn´t strong,
then you can only admit defeat.
Real love will never become hate.
When two people are in love,
they love to ask each other to swear,
to make promises.
Why do they ask each other to swear and promise?
Because they don´t trust each other,
they don´t trust their lover.
These swear and promises are useless;
Till the sky falls, till the ocean dry,
my love for you will never change!
We all know that the sky will never fall;
the ocean will never dry,
even if it does happen,
are we still alive by then?
Be careful when making promises;
don´t make promises that you cannot keep.
Swear by things that can never happen,
because it can never happen,
so no harm just saying it casually.
Remember,
swearing by things that can never happen
are the most touching!!
In a relationship, what you say is one thing,
but what you do is another;
The one saying, doesn´t believe;
the one listening,
also doesn´t believe.
NB:
I always felt that my love life seems
doesn´t go well as I wish.
It always hurt.
Those words really have a great great meaning
and too easy to be written
but it´s absolutely difficult to do..
Four people you will meet in life.
Life is the process of finding love;
every person will need to find four people in their life.
First person is you,
second person is the one you love most,
third person is the one who love you most,
and the fourth is the one you spend the rest of your life with.
In life, firstly you will meet with the one you love most,
and learn how love feels.
Because you know how love feels,
so you can find the person who loves you most.
When you have experienced the feeling
of loving others and being loved,
you will then know what it is you need most.
Then you will find the person who is most suitable for you,
to be able to spend the rest of your life with.
Sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person.
The one you love most doesn´t love you.
The one, who love you most, is never the one you love most.
And the one you spend your life with,
is never the one you love most or
the one who love you most.
He is just the person who happens
to be at the right place at the right time.
Which person are you in other people´s life?
No person will purposely have a change of heart.
At the point in time when he loves you,
he really loves you.
But when he doesn´t love you anymore,
he really doesn´t love you anymore.
When he loves you,
he can´t pretend that he doesn´t.
Same goes, when he loves you no more,
there´s no way he can pretend he loves you.
When a person doesn´t love you and wants to leave you.
You must ask yourself
if you still love him,
if you also don´t love him anymore,
do not keep him just to save your pride.
If you still love him,
you should wish him happiness,
and hope that he will be with the one he loves most,
not stop him from it.
If you stop him from finding true happiness
with the one he loves,
it shows you already don´t love him,
and if you don´t love him,
what rights do you have to blame him
for a change of heart?
Love is not possessive,
if you like the moon,
you can´t just take it down
and put it in your basin,
but the moonlight still shines upon you.
In other words, when you love a person,
you can use another method of
possessing the person.
Let him become a permanent memory in you life.
If you really love a person,
you must love him for what he is.
Love him for his good points,
and the bad,
you can´t wish for him to become like
what you like him to be just
because you love him.
If he can´t change to become what you like him to be,
you don´t love him anymore.
When you really love a person,
you cannot find a reason why you love him,
you only know that no matter when and where,
good mood or bad mood,
you will wish to have this person be with you.
Real love is when two people
can go through the toughest problems
without asking for promises or
listing criterias.
In a relationship,
you have to put in effort and
give in at times,
not always be on the receiving end.
Being away from each other is a type of test,
If the relationship isn´t strong,
then you can only admit defeat.
Real love will never become hate.
When two people are in love,
they love to ask each other to swear,
to make promises.
Why do they ask each other to swear and promise?
Because they don´t trust each other,
they don´t trust their lover.
These swear and promises are useless;
Till the sky falls, till the ocean dry,
my love for you will never change!
We all know that the sky will never fall;
the ocean will never dry,
even if it does happen,
are we still alive by then?
Be careful when making promises;
don´t make promises that you cannot keep.
Swear by things that can never happen,
because it can never happen,
so no harm just saying it casually.
Remember,
swearing by things that can never happen
are the most touching!!
In a relationship, what you say is one thing,
but what you do is another;
The one saying, doesn´t believe;
the one listening,
also doesn´t believe.
NB:
I always felt that my love life seems
doesn´t go well as I wish.
It always hurt.
Those words really have a great great meaning
and too easy to be written
but it´s absolutely difficult to do..
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